December 29, 2010

A Quiet and Merry Christmas

We had a stay-home family Christmas this year. On Christmas Eve everyone chose (or were assigned) an activity they were in charge of for the evening. We put names in a hat; the name drawn was the next activity we'd do.

First, we reenacted the nativity. Chuck read the script and Jared made a very fine angel, though he protested at first ("Angels are girls!"). Kaitlin was a very pious Mary; Chaz a grumpy Joseph; and Ruth and Mom filled in as shepherds (Ruth herded a reindeer, Becky a large stuffed dog) and wise men. There were even fantastic special effects (Chuck shined a flashlight on a paper star on the wall).

Jared's activity was "Drink eggnog" which everyone seemed to enjoy. I lead everyone in playing carols with an 8 bell set I had purchased for the Primary. The bells were color coded, so I drew colored dots on a paper to indicate who was to play when. We even played some harmony.

Chaz wanted to drive around and see lights. We have two houses in our area that do the synchronized light shows to music, and both were very fun to watch. Though we were frustrated with other drivers that were not exercising idling etiquette (don't have your lights on, don't pull right in front and block everyone's view).

Kaitlin hosted some Christmas karaoke. And then we played some Christmas Imagine-If (a board game: "Imagine If The Heat Miser was a ice cream flavor...)

By the end of the board game Jared wanted to stop playing and go to bed but instead, the kids decided to go down to the family room and play Twister. It was a fun night.

On Christmas day we opened presents, and everyone seemed happy with what they received. The older kids got mostly clothes, but Kaitlin also got a few surprises that she was happy with. Ruth got a rc helicopter and a wii game, and Jared got a science kit and a Wizard Mickey that he had wanted. Grandma Barnum sent us all PJ pants, and Santa brought those as well, so all day we were sporting a comfy look. In the evening we had a nice dinner and all in all it was a quiet and very nice Christmas.


Cousin Stacy's Home Coming

On Sunday we drove to Ogden to see my niece speak in church about her mission to Chili. She is an entertaining speaker with a good mix of inspirational stories and testimony. Afterward, we had dinner at her house and visited will all the family. We loved hearing more stories from Stacy, and visiting with each other.

On the way home we dropped Kaitlin off for a week at her dad's and then we stopped at my brother David's house for dinner (Thanks, Shauni!). After dinner we took two of our cousin's, Orion and Mary, home with us for a sleep over visit.

Looking Forward to 2011

Next year will hold a lot of change for our family. Chaz will be graduating from High School and Kaitlin will be starting High School. Jared will start the new year being Baptized (he had his interview with the Bishop this week) and he is also starting Cub Scouts. In the fall, Ruth will turn twelve and enter our church's youth program. We were not selected to be in the Nauvoo Pageant this coming summer, so with that plan fallen through, we don't know what we will be doing. I can't help but wonder what the Lord has in store for us and what the future will bring.

December 19, 2010

Happy Birthday, Jared!

Our little man turned eight on Saturday. He got a microscope ("the best gift ever") and a black suit (he had asked for one and was very excited). He also got a few science kits that he was excited to do. In the afternoon we went miniature golfing and then ate ice cream and walked around Toys-r-us. In the evening we ate Jared's favorite dinner (Hawaiian haystacks) and watched The Sorcerer's Apprentice.

We are getting excited for his baptism in a few weeks. Grandma and Grandpa Barnum are coming, and also Aunt Denise, Aunt Laura and Cousin Susan. We are so excited to see them! You are all invited to the Baptism and lunch afterward. It is scheduled for Saturday, January 8th at 9:00am.










"The most epic five seconds of my life"

Kaitlin, Ruth, our neighbor Avery and I went downtown to the David Archuleta and Mormon Tabernacle Choir Christmas Concert. We had heard horror stories about traffic and more tickets being issued than there were seats, so we left 4 hours early. We enjoyed some Chinese food downtown and then a walk through beautiful Temple Square to see the lights. We lined up at the doors 20 minutes before they opened and then settled down for another 90 minutes until the show started. The performances were incredible. David Archuleta was nervous at first, but soon settled down and sang wonderfully. David is one of those rare performers that sounds even better live then on CD. We savored every note. There were also dancers, bell ringers, the orchestra and of course the choir. After the performance we went a block away and got in the line for David's CD signing. It was freezing and at first Ruth and Avery did not want to stay, but soon we were talking and singing and having a good time. An hour and a half later we were quickly ushered past David. He was smiling and handsome, and signed Kaitlin's book and CD. All the girls were so excited. As we walked away from the signing into the night, that is when Ruth made the declaration that is the title of this section.
















Eagle Scout

This last week Chaz had his Board of Review to get his Eagle Scout. After a lengthy interview they determined to award Chaz the Eagle Scout award. They have to file his papers with the National organization. We'll have his Court of Honor some time in February.

December 13, 2010


It's Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas

The tree is up. The cow wreath is on the door. Yes, Christmas has come to our house. Presents keep appearing under the tree and the kids are excited. Who is the most excited?? It's got to be Jared with Ruth as a close second. Yesterday, Jared spent over and hour sorting gifts into piles by name and then putting them back under the tree in random order so they will be a surprise.




Jared has even more than Christmas to be excited about; his birthday is this week. The poor kids watches all the other member of the family have birthdays all year, and then his birthday and Christmas are jammed into one week. When he complains to me, I tell him that we wanted him to be part of our family so badly, that it didn't matter to us that it was at Christmas time.




Christmas Concerts

Our family has had surprisingly few Christmas Concerts this year. We have no child in band or in choir. Chaz and I sang in a concert last night at our church and Ruth and Jared sang in a choir last week in church. So now we are done with all our holiday performances.



David Archuleta


We reached out to many of you for help getting tickets to the David Archuleta & Mormon Tabernacle Choir concert. Well,good news! Our neighbors had 4 tickets, but ended up having to work that night. So they asked me if they gave me their tickets, would I take their daughter (Ruth's age)to the concert. Heck, YES! So Kaitlin, Ruth, our neighbor and I are off to David Archuleta this Friday. We are all so excited!

November 28, 2010

Disneyland Trip

Last weekend we checked the kids out of school and took off on a Wednesday afternoon for a whirl-wind Disney weekend. After spending the night in Mesquite we arrived in sunny southern CA on Thursday afternoon. That afternoon we got used to our 'family suit' (2 rooms, 2 bathrooms and a living room - pretty sweet for less than $130 a night) and we spent the evening swimming and walking around Downtown Disney. Little did we know this would be the last sun we would see on our vacation.

Friday at Disneyland was a total blast! The park was empty all morning and by lunch time we had seen the whole park and ridden everything we wanted to ride. The crowds got heavier in the afternoon and evening, but with wise use of the fastpass system, it didn't slow us down. The longest line by far was for Peterpan (of all things) and that's because the ride broke down right as we were about to get on. (Thank you to all the people who got out of the way as Chuck and Jared vaulted the railings to make and emergency potty run while the ride was getting repaired.)

We got in line for the Casey Jones Jr. Train just as the fireworks were going off and had a great view sandwiched between Toontown fireworks and the fireworks in Fantasyland. The highlight for sure was watching "Fantasmic". In all the years I've gone to Disney theamparks I've never taken the time to watch one of these night time shows (this is the best time to ride rides as the lines are short), but Kaitlin really wanted to watch it, so half hour before the show we asked a motherly looking Cast Member where the best place to view the show was. She directed us and we had a great view and the show was Incredible! The day had been cool and cloudy (sweatshirt weather) and as we watched, cold rain began to fall. We sat there and shivered but the show was still well worth it.

The next morning we woke to rain, but undaunted, we headed out the door for our day at the tide pools. When we got down to the car it wouldn't start. A jump from the hotel maintenance man didn't help. We got the kids settled in front of the Disney Chanel ( a treat because we do not have cable at home) and I called an old friend that we knew in our last house that had moved "somewhere around Anaheim". To make a very long story short, our friend, Becky Hunter, left the movie theater (she had had tickets to the premier of Harry Potter for 2 weeks) and came to drive us to a car repair place. We learned our car needed a new alternator and Becky Hunter had our car towed on her AAA to a repair place that she trusted. It was well past noon by then and rain was coming down in sheets. Our friends offered to drop our family off at a mall close to the repair place so that we could catch a movie while they worked on our car. We took the kids to see "Despicable Me" (it was very cute) and then walked around the mall for awhile until our car was fixed. Although our day at the beach was lost, we are so grateful for our friend who was our Good Samaritan that day.

The drive home the next day was supposed to be only 11 - 12 hours, but turned into a 16 hour ordeal when we hit a blizzard in Beaver and the highway was closed. We went on a detour which ended up to be a two hour nightmare. Without going into detail, lets just say that the highlight was finding the closed small town gas station that had a pop machine outside so we could get sodas to drink. While the drive home was horrible, we were grateful that we made it home safely.



Thanksgiving

A quiet Thanksgiving at home was just what was needed for my family that still was not 100% recovered from our Disney adventure. In the morning we went and saw "Tangled", the new Disney movie, which we loved. For Dinner we enjoyed a rotisserie chicken, potatoes, stuffing, frog-eye salad and home made rolls. Ruth made a pumpkin pie, crust and all, by herself.

On Friday we drove up to my parents house to visit with them, my brother Richard and his family from TX, and my sister Donna. We had a good visit and were able to take part in the traditional "Thanksgiving Snow Flake Cutting".

November 14, 2010


Colonel Pickering spends a lot of time on stage watching the interaction between
Higgins and Eliza.


Chaz was really great in the scenes where he spoke on the phone. He had great comedic timing.


Chaz stands next to the household staff watching Professor Higgins.


Chaz Appears in My Fair Lady

Chaz's musical My Fair Lady opened on Friday. On Wednesday I chaperoned a field trip where Kaitlin and all the 9th graders went to see a dress rehearsal of the play.

On Saturday all the family came over for dinner at our house and then went together to the show (I served the Veggie soup that I posted on this blog last month). We were all proud of Chaz and thought he did a great job.




Here is a scene right before the horse racing scene where Colonel Pickering is explaining to Mrs. Higgins that her son is bringing a flower girl to Ascots.



This is Chaz's big solo. The "You Did It" song is right after they get home from passing Eliza off at the ball.

November 7, 2010

Chaz's Musical This Week

Chaz is very busy putting the finishing touches on My Fair Lady. They open on Wednesday morning with a performance for 9th graders from the middle school. The evening performances are Friday, Saturday and Monday all at 7:00 pm. I hear that ticket prices are $7.00 for Adults, $6.00 for students and $5.00 for children. Like I posted last week, we'll be hosting a dinner at 5:30 at our house on Saturday, for anyone who would like to come and eat before the show.




Parent/Teacher Conferences

We had conferences with Ruth's and Jared's teachers and received good reports for both of them. Jared had to do an oral presentation this week in his class. He is a shy guy and this was very hard for him, but he got through it. A new quarter started for Chaz and Kaitlin this week as well, they are both doing fine.

October 31, 2010


Halloween Fun

Our Halloween started on Friday with the school Halloween parade and games. I'm Ruth's Room Mom and got to put on the Halloween Party for her class. On Saturday it was cold and rainy but we still had many trick-or-treaters. Jared and Ruth both got a big haul of candy.









New Calling for Becky

It's been three years almost to the day since I was asked to be the President of the Primary at my church. Well, today I stepped down as president and received a new assignment. I'm now the Primary Music Leader. That means that every Sunday I'll lead the singing and teach the children new songs. I'm feeling very relieved to have that big responsibility off my shoulders and I'm looking forward to singing with all the little kids. (this is a picture of my presidency at our last meeting)








Jr. Honors Society

This week Kaitlin was inducted into the National Jr. Honor Society. To be in the society she had to have a 3.8 or higher and do 10 hours of service a quarter.


My Fair Lady Coming Soon

Chaz's production of My Fair Lady is Friday the 12th, Saturday the 13th, and Monday the 15th. I'm putting on dinner for anyone interested in coming to see the show on Saturday the 13th. Dinner is at 5:30 and then we'll head over to the show at 6:30pm. All are invited - just RSVP. I haven't heard yet on ticket prices, but in the past they've been around $8.00.


Daddy/Daughter Hoedown

Chuck and Ruth went to a Daddy Daughter BBQ and Hoedown this week with Ruth's Activity Days Group (like Girl Scouts). They learned a line dance and Chuck was stiff the next day.

October 24, 2010


If you Give a Mouse Some Birdseed....

...they'll want to have 20 babies and live in your garage all winter. To combat our infestasion we accidentaly discovered the Birdfood Bag Trap-o-Matic. An ingenious mouse trap based on the simple notion of friction and gravity. The mice go in, but they can't climb out. But if left long enough they can chew out, so vigilance is required. We are a catch and release kind of family. The kids have taken joy with every catch, talking to the little things as we release them in the back yard. However, as of the 20th mouse, Chuck and I started to wonder if we weren't just recycling the same 5 or 6 over and over again. Something more drastic may need to be done.


Primary Program Success

Today was our Primary Program. Each year the children at our church put on a special program where they talk about what they are learning in Sunday School each week. We have a very large group with 154 children. They had speaking parts and sang songs. It all went very smoothly and we even ended on time (again)! I got to speak at the end and I was very emotional, but got through it. Now I'm feeling much lighter, so glad that it's over for another year.


My Fair Lady and Homecoming

Chaz is in middle of crunch time for his musical My Fair Lady. We are scrounging for costumes, and he is always at practice. In fact, Chaz hasn't been home much. This week was Homecoming at his highschool and being a class officer he has been busy planing events and going to meetings and football games. He helped decorate and put on the Homecoming dance the same morning he also painted sets for the show. When I have pictures from the dance I'll post them, so you can see how handsome he looked.


Family Picture

We had to take a family picture to attach to our application to be in the Nauvoo Pageant next summer. So here it is.

October 17, 2010

Ice Skating

On Saturday Ruth, Jared, Chuck and I went ice skating at the Olympic Oval. It was the first time for the kids. Jared had already learned to roller blade this fall so he took to ice skating quickly. Ruth struggled but kept with it and by the end was skating on her own. While we were there we also watched some hockey, and we watched Olympian Derek Parra teach a short track speed skating class. Both were fun to watch.


Veggie Soup Recipe


I've made this soup recipe that a friend gave me twice this fall and both times it was delicious.

Garden Soup

Saute:3T butter
2 med/small zucchini diced
2T parsley
2T basil
Add: 1/3 c. flour - still well
Add: 3 c. chicken broth
1 tea lemon juice - and bring to a boil.
Add: 2-3 tomatoes diced
1 12 oz can evap milk
1 c. frozen corn
Reduce heat, cover and simmer for 5 mins.
Stir in 1/3 c. parmesan cheese
2 c. colby jack cheese
Salt and pepper to taste.

October 10, 2010

New Church Assignment for Chuck

Today Chuck got a new church assignment. For the past four years he has been working with the teenage boys in scouting and Young Mens or youth group. Today he was given a new assignment as High Priest Group Leader. High Priest is a fancy name for the older men in the church. So yes, Chuck, the youngest man in the group at 45 has been put in charge of all the "mature" men. He will be in charge of watching out for all the old men and widows, that they get checked up on every month and he will organize service projects and make service assignments as needed. He also runs the weekly group that meets on Sundays. Chuck is very excited about this new job, and very relieved to be done working with the teenage boys (who had worn him pretty thin as of late).


Nothing Much

Nothing much else happened this week, so I'm including more pictures from our fun outing to the corn maze last weekend.

We really loved the bouncy pillows.


All the swings on this set were sculpted tire dinosaurs.


This was the largest blow-up attraction that I've ever seen, but ultimately we all chickened out going through this spook-ally except for Chuck.

Riding on the pumpkin coach.

Pump water down the rain gutters to race the ducks.

Jared did not like the corn maze.

October 3, 2010

Ruth's Birthday

Ruth had a Nancy Drew Mystery Party for her birthday on Friday. We used the script that I had written for Kaitlin's 11th birthday (it is found on one of my blogs linked on the bar on the left). Five girls came and the six of them acted through a mystery with several rounds of games and clues. They all seemed to have a fun time.


On Saturday we went to huge corn maze. Not only is it a maze but they had many other activities for the family. It was hot and Jared didn't like trudging through the dusty maze in the sun. But we all enjoyed the other activities and had a fun time.




A tractor ride through the corn.


After 50 minutes of wandering we made it out of the maze.


Making the faces of the pumpkins.



Soccer

Jared is almost finished with another season of soccer. This is the first year they've had goalies and Jared has been very excited to play that position. He had his chance this week and only let one goal past him the entire half.

September 26, 2010

Fire Recovery

Things are finally settling down from our fire. On Monday and Tuesday we still could see smoke and had constant helicopters and plains overhead. By Wednesday our neighbors all returned to their homes. We've had a few days with a smoky smell in the air but that is it.

It's been amazing to see the community come together, and we are so thankful to the firefighters and other workers that handled this emergency with such professionalism. Take a look at this overhead photo of our fire. Our house would be off this photo to the middle left. Two of the houses that were burned are in the lower center, where you can see the fire crossed over the road. The houses we were watching with the flames behind them are the ones in the left lower corner. You can see from the photo how the fire burned right against their yards. It's really a miracle that more houses were not lost.


Chaz gets a Lead in My Fair Lady

All those years quoting Harry Potter in a fake British accent are finally paying off for Chaz. He got the roll of Colonel Pickering in his high school's first every musical My Fair Lady. He has already started rehearsals, and the show will be in November.








Zucchini Fest!

The Saturday before the big fire I helped put on a church activity for families. In the spring I had given zucchini seeds to all the children in our church. On Saturday we had a big dinner celebrating our harvest. We had a few contests for the longest, heaviest, etc. zucchini. And after the dinner our cub scouts and girls groups put on activities for all the kids. It was a fun activity that was well attended. Here is one of my contributions to the event. I painted this photo opportunity are corrugated paper board.

September 20, 2010

A Long Night

As I sit here this morning typing this, out one bedroom window I can still see a large cloud of white puffy smoke. It looks like fog really, or like a cotton ball, with just a little tint of gray. The fire is still burning up above the reservoir, but thankfully the wind is coming from the north now, and blowing the flames away from our neighborhood. Out my other window I see the black chard foothill. The one that just yesterday was showing the first hints of fall color. A blackhawk helicopter is flying over now, towing it's tiny bucket.

It All Started...

It all started Sunday morning. We sleep with our windows open and we woke to the smell of smoke. According to the news a fire is burning somewhere far away, so we don't think anything of it.

When we get out of church at 4:00 pm and walked home, we can see a gray plume of smoke over our mountain. We hear on the news that there is a brush fire at Fort Williams that was started at the machine gun range. The cloud is little more than a curiosity to us. Kaitlin takes advantage of the shifting orange light to get some cool photographs.

At seven when I leave to go to a meeting, the smoke cloud has grown. It's an amazing sight. As I drive up the mountain side to the church building, I see the valley covered in gray smoke, turned orange by the setting sun. The sun is a red and orange ball on the horizon.

A Frightening Awakening

For an hour and a half I am in the meeting. We are discussing the Christmas Music Fireside. I'm assigned to write the script for it, and that is what I am thinking about when I exit to my car. Night has fallen. I pull out around the building to head home, and am not prepared for the sight. The mountain is on fire!

I have never seen anything like it. Bright orange lines of fire zig-zag across the mountain range. In some places I see the flames lick up towards the sky. The mountain is cased in a hazy orange halo against the black sky.

I'm in a hurry to get home, and drive past lines of cars pulled over to take in the sight. Everyone is out of their houses watching and waiting. When I get home my family is already tense. Ruth is visibly upset. But there is also this feeling of excitement and exhilaration.

We all pile in the van and drive out to get a better view. It's amazing and frightening all at the same time.

Evacuation?

Once home again, reports start coming in that many of our friends and neighbors are being evacuated. Our primary news source about this is Facebook, though we do get a few calls, friends letting us know that they are leaving. When Chaz get's a call from a friend, only a few blocks away, it is then that the reality that we may also have to evacuate distills upon me.

Two families in our circle begin to pack up. They are leaving. Another friend, who's boy has asthma has already left. Ruth begins to pack - just in case.

We get a call from my brother in Layton offering his house to us. Chuck and I consider the possibilities as we watch the line of fire move closer to our neighborhood and the air thickens with smoke and starts rain down ash. We evacuate our rabbit into the house.

The Waiting Game

Our across the street neighbor is a ham radio guy, and is also the emergency communications specialist for our area. He is standing in front of his house with his radio. Our bishop arrives and he joins our Elder's Quorum president on his roof to keep an eye on the flames.

Around 11:30 I get a call from the PTA president requesting that I put information on the PTA website and Facebook page about school closures. Both the city website and the school district website has crashed. Facebook is still the best place to get information. The city is updating often.

By midnight Chuck has gotten Ruth and Jared settle in front of a movie, Kaitlin and Chaz are packing. The evacuation zone is growing and we are beginning to feel like we may be next. A group of us stand together on our neighbors lawn watching the fire progress. It's an organic living thing that moves unpredictably. At times it the flames would be high and concentrated, and then with a gust of wind it would move across the mountain like a snake. Huge areas would be consumed in a matter of seconds. We watch the flames move across the ridge line of one of the foothills with amazing speed. In the far distance we can see large blocks of orange red flames, the smoke is blacker and thicker. The men on the roof report that they are houses burning.

The wind is blowing from the south east, and suddenly we see flames lick over the top of the foothill that our neighborhood is built against. We can see the top ridge of houses in silhouette against the orange flames. Flashing blue lights and tiny black men are dwarfed against the flames. We see fire hoses starting to douse the homes. From our perspective it looked like squirt guns shooting at a huge bonfire.

We stand there and watch for thirty or so minutes, thinking that at any moment these houses would burst into flames and rain burning embers down on our neighborhood. Thankfully they don't. The wind has shifted and the flames in that area are dieing down.

The shifting wind pushes a line of flame up our foothill. Within seconds our foothill is covered in flames! The fire moves so fast. This is the most frightening time because we know if the wind shifts, that wall of flame will slam into our neighborhood. The fire is less then a mile away now.

Our ham radio guy gets reports that the houses just to the south of us must evacuate. Again we are spared evacuation. The wind keeps blowing in our favor, and the weather report is optimistic. A cold front is moving in from the north. Over the next little while we watch the flames grow smaller and slow down.

Safe Enough to Sleep

It's almost 2:00am and we have decide to go to bed. We are all exhausted. The wind is steady from the north now and we feel that most of the danger has passed. Our city is operating on a reverse 911 system, and we will be called if the evacuation zone changes. Jared fell asleep in front of the movie, but Ruth is terrified and sleeps in our room, beside me on the floor. I feel a sence of peace, like everything will be fine, so I fall asleep right away.

At 5:00am I am up again. I check the school district website and update my PTA website and Facebook group with the news that the local schools are closed. Around 6:30 am Chaz heads out the door to go to the High School, he is a student body officer there, and they are helping with the evacuation site.

I woke up at 8:00am. My head is pounding, but the sun is shinning. I opened all the windows to try to air out the smoky smell in the house. I've also started the laundry since all our cloths smell like fire. It's amazing the difference a few hours can make.

The news is that only four houses were lost. One friend, who's house was right in the thick of things, still doesn't know if one of those houses was hers. In the light of day the events of the night seem surreal. We feel very blessed that everything is alright.

Things I'd Do Differently

I guess it's only human to try to make something good come out of something that was terrifying. I've been thinking a lot this morning about things we could have done differently or better. Here are some things I've come up with:

A Place to Go: Establish a place to evacuate to in advance. We got offers from family, but they lived quite a distance away, and we wanted to stay close. If we had already established an evacuation place with a friend that lived closer, we probably would have been more willing to evacuate earlier. As it was, I did call a friend around 11pm that lived only 15 minutes away, and she was on stand by to receive us if we had to evacuate.

A List of What We Should Take: I wished I had a list of things I needed to take if we had to evacuate and only had 20 minutes to load the car and go. It was hard in the moment to consider everything that we would need under those circumstances.

Masks: At times the smoke got thick. It would have been nice to have had face masks in our 72 hour kits that we could wear if we had to. My throat and eyes are still irritated this morning.

Evacuate Earlier: If I had it to do all over again, I think I would have had the kids pack up early on and headed for a relatives house. Then we would have been spared the anxious hours of watching and waiting. Then my kids would have the memory of a fun adventure to a cousin's house, rather then the memory of watching a wall of flame move closer and closer to their house.


So Grateful

I feel so grateful to those hundreds of men that risked their lives to save our neighborhood. I'm grateful to their families, that sacrifice their fathers, sons, mothers and daughters, to keep us all safe. I'm thankful to Heavenly Father, who turned the winds. That made all the difference.

Thank you all for your concerns and prayers. I feel better after writing this all out, so thanks for reading.

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