Paraguay Asuncion North
Kaitlin has wanted to serve a mission for our church for ages, but it has only been in the last month or so that she has totally committed to the idea. There is a lot of paperwork required, including long questionnaires, doctor and dentist visits, and interviews with two levels of ecclesiastical leaders. She submitted her paperwork a little over two weeks ago, and then on Thursday her mission assignment/call came. The church could ask her to go anywhere in the world, to learn any language, and she would go eagerly, though we all thought she would probably be assigned somewhere in the U.S..

Kaitlin came home from college on Friday to open her call. She invited some friends and we all gathered to hear the news. She had been dancing around with anticipation for two days and now the moment to open the envelope had come. With shaking hands she opened it and read that she had been assigned to serve in Paraguay, speaking Spanish. I think there were a few beats of disbelief for all of us and then Kaitlin exclaimed "Oh, my heck!"
We've spent the last few days processing this news, Kaitlin especially. I think the first few hours she was in shock. After 24 hours we were starting to wrap our minds around it. While nervous, Kaitlin is really excited for this next adventure. She won't leave until August so that gives us a few months to get a passport and visa, buy clothes, boots, raincoat, luggage, and everything she will need. It will also allow Kaitlin to go to Nauvoo with us, which she didn't think would happen. She has a month left at school and then she will come home and try to find a job for two months.
Easter
Easter has kind of taken a back seat to the mission call stuff. This weekend is also our church's general conference, so we've focused on watching that. Also, our family is getting older and the kids just aren't as excited. This was the first time we've ever had left over eggs that no one wanted to dye. I did talk the kids into an egg hunt by agreeing that they could hide the eggs and Chuck and I would do the hunting. Now I'm talented at a lot of things but egg hunting must not be one; Chuck got 19 eggs to my 6. I have a turkey breast in the crock pot and in a couple hours we'll sit down to a nice dinner.
Musing: Safety Nets
This has been a stressful time of upheaval in our family as you can imagine, Chuck has born the brunt of it with his job hunt and all the responsibilities that fall on him, but Kaitlin too has been through the ringer with this mission decision, school, and then the stress of knowing that we are out of work. While I too, have felt the stress of it all, there has also been a strong feeling of calm, that all will happen in God's way and in his time. It's caused me to reflect on safety nets. I think I can sum up my thoughts into three categories.
Debt Free Living Net: For many years our church leaders have urged us to live frugally and debt free and Chuck and I have headed that advice to the best of our ability. We are so grateful that we don't have loan payments, credit card payments, or car payments. It is so refreshing to know that we don't have to pay a cable bill, a phone bill (just the internet bill), or phone contracts. Our only large obligation is the mortgage, and we've built up enough savings that we can pay that one for awhile longer. What an amazing safety net to know that we can go many more months unemployed and we will be just fine.
Gospel Net: We continue to be amazed at the support we have gotten from the members of our church. All the church members are networked together to help its members find employment. Almost all of Chuck's interviews have come from leads given him by church members. Many members have gone out of their way to talk to their employers to recommend Chuck. It is just so amazing for him to walk into an interview knowing that someone has already talked to and recomended Chuck to the employer. In addition, our church friends have been amazingly suportive. They have done little acts of service like dropping off treats, offering hugs and emotional support, or just inquiring after us to make sure we are ok. I even had a couple friends take me out or out to lunch just to be there for me. At times it's been hard to take all this service, but when I want to protest the spirit wipers to me that I need to give others the opportunity to serve. Lastly, we have felt the power of prayers for us. Chuck has been going to the temple every week as well and has felt that a higher power is watching over us.
No Longer Strangers Net: This one is more related to Kaitlin's mission call than our unemployment. We had no idea how connected we were to Paraguay. Within 24 hours of our putting Kaitlin's call on the internet many people have reached out to us. I discovered a young woman I taught years ago, and with whom I'm facebook friends, lives in that area and contacted me. Kaitlin's dad has a friend that used to live there and they have already contacted friends in the area to look out for Kaitlin's arrival. Kaitlin found another sister who had just been called to the same mission and they have become facebook friends. I joined a group of Paraguay missionary mom's and was immediately contacted with messages and hands of friendship. One woman went as far as to email me a packing list and words of advice that she has learned from having her son living in Paraguay. It's really been amazing how many people are willing to reach out and support us.These nets of wonderful people have given a new meaning to the scripture about bearing one another's burdens, that they may be light.